Tips dating commitment phobe
The secondary gain of staying single (for them) is avoiding these fears.
The hard line you must take is to follow common sense and reason, not indulge in fantasy.
Here’s what I thought my options were: kill myself.
With everything you do, no matter who you are, humility is not a strategy for being a good person – humility is a strategy for seeing the subtleties in everything, the missing pieces that everyone else skips because they think they are entitled. I’ve often been bogged down by the mythology of life.
We don’t always have to be jumping careers and slaving away in kitchens or networking or coming up with ideas.
First, for commitment-phobes, it can feel safer to keep a distance, especially if they’ve been hurt, betrayed or suffered a great loss.