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While kinky people can be on a spectrum (see: “Switch”), typically you’re either dominant or submissive.If you take away one fact from this guide, it should be that even though the dominant partner in D/S relationship may be slapping, name-calling, and spitting on the submissive, BDSM and D/S relationships are all about erotic power exchange, not one person having power over another.BDSM releases endorphins, which can lead to both dominants and submissives experiencing a “drop.” Aftercare can help prevent that.There’s often cuddling and always conversation; kinksters need love too.W is for Wartenberg Wheel A Wartenberg Wheel is a nifty little metal pinwheel that you can run over your partner’s nipples or other erogenous zones.It looks scary, but in a fun way, like the Addams Family.Call me a prude, but I wouldn’t advise it on a first Tinder date.
U is for Urination Urinating means peeing (duh) and aside from pissing on a submissive’s face or in their mouth you can do other cool and consensual things with urine, like fill up an enema and inject it up someone’s butt! V is for Vanilla Vanilla refers to someone (or sex) that is not kinky. You’re normal and can still find meaningful love and relationships no matter how much society judges you.If there’s actually a chance of real physical harm, it’s likely edgeplay.Only get bloody with a partner who knows what they’re doing without a doubt and has been tested for STIs. F is for Fisting Fisting is when someone sticks their entire fist inside a vagina (or butthole).Leather shorts, leather paddles, and leather corsets are popular, although increasingly kinky retailers provide vegan options for their animal-loving geeks.M is for Masochist A masochist is someone who gets off on receiving sexual pain.