Dating in the dark application form 2016
How can we expect our children to go out in the world and be confident of their worth when we secretly or, in some cases, not so secretly hold such a negative view of black beauty?
From straightening our hair and bleaching our skin to wearing hair weaves and colored contact lenses, many of us are guilty of rejecting our natural black selves in an attempt to conform to mainstream society.
People often referred to him as “black” or “dark.” My sister and I scored somewhere in the middle of the two, so I suppose my mother was the oddball in our house.
My Barbie was white, as were most of my baby dolls.
I started to pay attention to other people’s thought processes and actions in relation to skin complexion.
I started to notice that people to whom I was really close had those same feelings.
I felt cheated that, all of this time, I had been left in the dark on this thing that apparently I was a part of and did not realize.
My dark-skinned friends make references such as “she’s only pretty because she’s light-skinned” or even favor their children with lighter skin.