Dating in high school pros and cons
"I think that has had a huge impact on both of us as adults, individually and as a couple.
Being in a relationship with someone who has never needed to be closeted is incredibly empowering." That, in addition to growing up together, provided their later relationship with a rich foundation.
"Compared with relationships I had with people I didn't go to high school or college with, I certainly felt a greater level of comfort at the onset," he says.
"Lauren and I continue to receive an overwhelming amount of support and encouragement from childhood friends and parents of friends who know us both—something I attribute in part to the fact people like rooting for home team' relationships."On the other hand my friend Sarah says she had a crush on her wife, Maddy, from the minute she met her in ninth grade.
I'll never forget when my good friend Oliver decided to change the focus his dating life.
Like most of my 20-something friends from high school now living in the big city, he was enjoying the multitude of opportunities to date—and sleep with— strangers.
"The common bonds of earlier experiences can be a fantastic foundation for a relationship," he says.
Though Daren says the commonalities of growing up in the same town didn't spark an attraction during high school, they certainly helped once the pair got romantic.Co-ed schools offer the obvious benefit that the dating pool on campus is all-encompassing.However, as previously mentioned, some students find it more difficult to focus on academics at co-ed schools.But remember: You have to decide what is best for you.Some students simply prefer single-sex schools while others prefer co-ed schools. Many students at single sex schools point to the lack of opposite sex as an enormous advantage.