Dating a disabled man
It might help you to get some proper RL help - not practical help but help dealing with and understanding your emotions.
If you don't know where to start, we are here to help. If you are disabled, it doesn't mean you can't have a vivid love life; however, you might need to make few adjustments in order to make it as pleasurable as possible.(and, just to be clear, I don't mean that in a horrible way)Perhaps, whilst dealing with and adjusting to the changes with your lives you haven't had time to deal with it yourself on a personal level.Would some counselling help you look at whether your feelings have changed towards your DH or whether they've just been lost underneath whats happened?I feel so guilty, because its totally not his fault... but i'd take the chance if things were different, like my husband had ever been a bad father or husband... i still love him, but to be frank sex is non-existent now and i like sex! oh i feel like shit again, i think you've got the picture, not sure what i want or need to hear, just respond if you like, cheersx Difficult.You and your husband have my deepest sympathies, and I totally understand that this is not the life you had been envisaging.